Fathers are an important part of any household but being a daddy is what’s the most memorable. Some fathers take a back seat out of necessity since they may have to work long hours in order to maintain a household. Others do so by choice or this is how they grew up but in reality, it takes a solid support system to rear a child in these times.
While there are some dads who enjoy bonding with their kids over fishing trips, sporting events and other areas where there may be a common interest, many parents like to use leisure time flying solo.
In the case of the father that lives away from the child, spending quality time is crucial because some children tend to feel they’re the reason that the father doesn’t reside with them.
Mothers need to take initiative and create a schedule that allows almost even time with both parents. While there are some unusual circumstances, such as the father who lives in another state, here’s some simple tips for both parents.
* Ensure that the child can always contact the father – even if it’s by way of the paternal grandparent’s home, this is better than losing communication entirely.
* Reserve time in advance to spend with the child. While this may be a court order, it shouldn’t feel like a chore for the father or the child.
* Get to know the child on their terms. When emotional or physical distance is ongoing, the communication process may be difficult. Sometimes, this starts with minimal or difficult conversation but it’s up to both parents to see that it progresses over time.